Miss Ninis Farewell

Halo

Today is quite unhappy day for me. Today is the last day i get to meet Miss Ninis. She is my son speech therapist. She is resigned from Hermina Ciputat hospital and get another opportunity somewhere else in Tangerang. In the last 5 months i just met here about 10 minutes top twice a week, but it sort of i feel connect with her. She obviously help me to teach my son to communicate better, since i guess i am not good enough mom who can teach her son to talk the right way. 

Last week she texted that today would gonna be her last day to teach Adam (my son), i took this news quite heavy. 

She is a pretty young therapist who is very friendly. 


She said she definetely would gonna miss my son, but definetly me the mother who is feeling like losing her. 

I always hate goodbye and farewell. But this time is for the greater good. I really hope she achieve her dreams. We’ll miss you Miss Ninis.

Starting next week, Adam will learn with miss Tya. I hope they could connect like he and miss ninis does. I really wish adam can talk and communicate soon, but it must be hard to give another goodbye. But if its for the greater good, so it think its the best. I cant imagine someday when adam’s time to leave the house. That wouldnt be easy, especially for a cryer like me. So i think i am gonna use my time. I’ll spend as many time with him. I love you son


Lucky

19 september 2017

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Inspiration on September 6, 2017 (a great woman)

Today i met someone at the hospital

A woman who took another person kid to the hospital. She work as an assisstant in that kid house. That kid is having delay development, he can walk yet so doctor think he needs therapy. All the best wish for the kid, i hope he can walk soon.

But this story is not about the kid, its about the woman who took her to the hospital, lets call her “Ana”

Miss Anna told me a little story about her life. She is a widow, few years ago his husband was perished on an accident. His husband was a security, it looks like he was very sleepy when he rode his motorcycle home. 

First lesson: dont drive if you’re sleepy

After his husband death, she needs to take care of her three kids. So she work as an assistant in a house. The owner of the house is a very busy couple who have 3 little kids. Mommy works as a producer and daddy works in an automobile company. Ana take care of this three kids and left her own kids outside town so she can pay her kids education. After a year of working she can save some money. Not only she can pay her kids education, she also can buy a land for her kids in central java as a legacy. Only a year, she can afford it all. 

Second lesson: it’s not how much you earn, its how much you can save for the rainy days

She once thought she has enough and want to be near her own kids. She asked her boss is it okay if she quit. The boss denied, the boss beg her to stay desperately. The boss realize their younger son (who is having delay development) needs Ana so much. Even their younger son refuse to eat if its not with Ana

Third lesson: it doesnt matter how rich you are, you need someone else.

I am very happy that by the way Ana telling her story, her boss is very kind. And the way Ana treats her boss son is very good (while her boss isn’t looking). I once thought the boy was Ana’s son. 

Fourth lesson: always listen and dont judge easily

Lucky story

Life on mars

Life on mars is my term to say live in somewhere i dont know. Its not that i dont know where i am now, it just i dont know what to do now. I am a lousy mother, a bad parent you might say i wont be offended because it’s kinda true. I am not earning anything, i just lean to my husband for life. 

I feel like a failure sometimes.

But i like to think i still have hope. Dont lose hope., thats all the people said right?

I want to believe that even on my age, i can still fight for my future. Is it okay?never late to learn and fight right? I have many wishes. I want to be a great mother, i want to be a good homecook, have a garden, great bussiness, great using sew machine, good in crocheting, at least able to speak on 5 languages, work in media or film, going to usa, going to mecca, understand microsoft project, have my own home and apartment, have spare car, can drive motorcycle, play the piano and guitar, study and work overseas, be happy. Could i accomplish all of them? So many of them. I can do everything right? Or am i just naive?

Samarinda Trip

We are happy family :)
We are happy family 🙂

I went to Samarinda last year! I attended Tya-Nino wedding, one of my best friends. I met Mba Ophie there, and we plus my husband went to a very big mosque there! Cool.. Samarinda’s weather is hot yet nothing beats rendezvous happinness..:)

Our trip took so loooong…. From Bandung, we took cititrans, from Jakarta we took Garuda Airlines, than we picked by Tya’s driver in Balikpapan.. and we did exactly the same looong time when we get back..except we had more experience with the traffic jam. Apparently Pertamina truck was too heavy and rolled on our way back to Balikpapan.. so it was a very tough trip yet a nice one.. we dont get to see our bestfriends everyday, do we?

Great Mosque
Great Mosque
Mba Ophie, Ka Gugun and Me
Mba Ophie, Ka Gugun and Me

Thank you for the invitation dear Tya!!

Tya and Nino's wedding day
Tya and Nino’s wedding day

 

seize the day, respect yesterday, hope for tomorrow…

be grateful for everything..

 

Me (Learning English Part 1)

My name is Lucky, I am 27 years old. My last education is Master from Highway Engineering. I worked as an engineer in Transport and Highway engineering Laboratory ITB. I used to deal with projects which are related to transport engineering. My last project is Pavement Evaluation in Jalan Lintas Timur Sumatera. In this project, we gather and analyze all the data needed like traffic, wim, pavement conditions. We used all the data to estimate the remaining life of the pavement, and recommend when will the proper time and method to fix it. There are routine maintenance, Periodic maintenance, or reconstruction based on the condition of the pavement. I used to prepare the technical document based on terms of reference, then after we got the project we begin to do it. I discuss the project with my colleagues and superiors, identify the project and all the things that connected to it then begin preparing the early report and presentation. Then we present it to the owner, accepted the comments and suggestions and continue our work. Some projects need field survey, some of us went to the field and gather all the data needed then we compile all the data and analyze. In the middle of the project we present the interim report then we present the final report in the end of the project based on schedule. Beside Jalintim project, I involved in another one like Composing of Traffic Safety for Highway Manual and NAASRA Standard and Procedure Manual.

Could u fix my grammar? I am despairing…

Singapore food I ate

I took some pics of food when i had my vacation..
A fried rice, hot tea, muffin, lychee tea, and exy aqua..
Here are they..

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Many people dont appreciate what they get.. Like a simple fried rice or water. But when its harder to get, it becomes treasures.

appreciate everything.. And you’ll be happy
@luckyaquita

Maybe – Ingrid Mikaelson

I watched The Glades on TV, this was played when Detective Longworth support his girlfriend Callie move to Atlanta for a better job. Touching..

Maybe
by: Ingrid Mikaelson

I don’t wanna be the one to say goodbye
But I will, I will, I will
I don’t wanna sit on the pavement while you fly
But I will, I will, oh yes I will

‘Cause maybe in the future, you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back around
Maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back

Oh, the only way to really know is to really let it go
Maybe you’re gonna come back, you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back to me

I don’t wanna be the first to let it go
But I know, I know, I know
If you have the last hands that I want to hold
Then I know I’ve got to let them go

‘Cause maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back around
Maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back

Oh, the only way to really know is to really let it go
Maybe you’re gonna come back, you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back

I still feel you on the right side of the bed
And I still feel you in the blankets pulled over my head
But I’m gonna wash away, oh I’m gonna wash away
Everything till you come home to me

Maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back
In the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back

Maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back around
Maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back

Oh, the only way to really know is to really let it go
Maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back around
Maybe in the future you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back

Oh, the only way to really know is to really let it go
Maybe you’re gonna come back, you’re gonna come back
You’re gonna come back to me, you’re gonna come back to me
You’re gonna come back to me

never easy to say goodbye.. Needs a big effort and stimulates tears
that’s why I didnt and will not say it
@luckyaquita

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